Ready to add an adorable new family member to your home? Choosing a new puppy is a lot of fun but can also be confusing. Last month we reviewed various breeds that may be better suited for different lifestyles; this month we will consider whether a male or female pup is better for your family.
Before considering the general differences between males and females, prospective parents should consider their own living conditions. According to researchers at Cornell and Tufts Universities, male dogs in general tend to exhibit more aggressive behavior towards humans, while female dogs tend to display more aggression towards other dogs. Of course, this research represents only a general trend and often training, especially training of the more aggressive breeds, can negate tendencies towards aggression. However, you may want to keep this research in mind if, for example, you already have dogs in your home, then you may want to add a male pup to your family. On the other hand, getting a female pup may be better for those who often host people in their homes or for those who like to take their dogs out with them to public places.
In addition to your family situation, you can keep in mind the following gender differences when choosing your pup:
Female Pros:
- Generally considered easier to house train and do not get distracted easily.
- Calmer with children
- Calmer with house guests
- Not as demanding of attention
Female Cons:
- Difficult to train during their cycle, which comes twice a year for 2-6 weeks
- Cycle may attract unwanted attention from neighborhood male dogs
- Have difficulty accepting other dogs in the home
Male Pros:
- Often more affectionate with humans and love constant attention
- More accepting of other dogs in the home
- Usually remain playful and child-like for much longer than females
Male Cons:
- Un-neutered male dogs tend to hump anything and everything
- Un-neutered males tend to roam farther from home
- Often need more vigorous training than females
It’s important to note that the non-biological differences between male and female pups are only general and do not factor-in individual character variations, genetics, and training. Like humans, dogs are individuals with unique characteristics that are not specific to gender. Genetics is also an important factor, as a good indicator of your dog’s future behavior, for example, is the behavioral traits of the parents. Ask detailed questions about both parents and observe how the mother reacts to you when you approach the litter. Is the mother shy, anxious, or aggressive? The mother’s behavior may be a better indicator of the pup’s character than whether it is male or female. Finally, keep in mind that almost any unwanted behavior may be alleviated through love, positive reinforcement, and professional training.
